Tuesday, January 18, 2011

why young couples get into fall out nowadays?

I see many lovers, holding hands while walking, holding their girlfriend’s shoulder or waist, and sometimes even kissing in public. When I see couples I talked to myself, why people who love each other has a tendency to hold each other’s hands or holding waists and shoulders?.  What if the guy get tired and seek some more, more than holding, more than kissing?
We know that a lot of young couples are now liberals in terms of dating, courting and even having sexual intercourse with their partner. We adopt the traditions and culture of western people, from our history, you can tell that I am right.
The days of courting girls’ parents were through, the days of just looking at each other were also through. We seek for more as the days’ passing by, we hold each other’s hands, kissing each other’s lips and sometimes when our partner asked us to make love, we tend not to say no because we believe that, “this guy loves me so much, that he cannot leave me alone”. But what if after that sexual intercourse, he will not carry the responsibilities? What will you do and say to your parents? You are not just having sins in your parents but also in God. the tendency of this make love is having a baby, remember satan is always working, that is why you are thinking that it is better to abort the child than to say these to your family. You are afraid that your family might hurt you. But always think, the anger of your family will pass as time goes. But the guilt and your conscience is always there, so it is better so say your mistakes than committing sins.
I know many people are looking for perfect girl or guy for them, but don’t look. In time, God will give him/her to you. And if you have a relationship now, let God be the center of your life.
Always remember, that God will not give you a partner who will not respect you as a woman, a guy who really loves you will just hold your hand and say “I want to be with you and take care of you forever”. Let God write your love story. He is the author of one true love.

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